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Sober Stories – How to Tell Your Recovery Story

Everyone has a different rehab story, but they all share one thing: the ability to seek assistance, which is often cited as a sign of weakness. Whatever it is — it could be substances such as drugs or alcohol — these problems are not exclusive to anyone — they can befall anyone: students or business people, parents or working individuals. Addiction stories often begin with people thinking they’re alone, but that’s far from true. Millions of other people have been through similar wars and have come out victorious. In this way, by Reading this, you are already demonstrating some of the strength in your desire to know something more about recovery. These and other real-life drug addiction recovery stories of real people who got their bodies back on track, show that the tiniest light at the end of the tunnel is always there even if now things may seem unbearable.

Mark Johnson

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I never thought I’d ever become an alcoholic. It started out innocently enough back in 2019: just a few Budweisers after those brutal 12-hour days, to deal with my aching back and the job stress. I was 35 then, busting my butt to provide for my wife and three kids in our small house on the South Side of Chicago. Before I knew it, those few beers turned into a six-pack, then a case. I started stashing Wild Turkey bottles behind the washing machine, sneaking drinks before my morning shift, and telling Sarah I was “just tired” when I’d stumble home late.

The moment it all started to come crashing down was at my daughter Emma’s high school graduation, June 2021. I had drunk half of the flask in the parking lot and could barely hold myself up during “Pomp and Circumstance.” God, the look on Emma’s face when I almost fell into the row of chairs—wouldn’t go out of my head for anything. The next morning, Sarah sat me down at our kitchen table, tears in her eyes, and told me she couldn’t watch me destroy myself anymore. Either I get help, or she’d take the kids to her sister’s in Milwaukee. That same week, I damn near dropped a steel beam on my coworker Mike, and Bob, my foreman, had to let me go. Shaking and scared out of my mind, I checked into Lakeside Rehab Center.

Those 90 days were the most excruciating in my life, but the staff there—especially my counselor Dave—were instrumental in helping me face my demons. The naltrexone helped with the cravings that used to drive me crazy, and the group therapy showed me I wasn’t alone in this fight. Sarah was a star, driving 45 minutes each way for our family therapy sessions with Dr. Rodriguez. When my kids finally started visiting—even my teenage son Jack, who’d barely talked to me for months—I felt hope for the first time in years.

My brother Tom, eight years sober himself, became my AA sponsor and took my 2 AM calls without complaint. Today, I’m two years clean, working as a site supervisor at new construction, and slowly earning back my family’s trust. Every Tuesday evening, you’ll still find me at my AA meeting at St. Michael’s Church, and I’m now sponsoring two guys myself. Getting sober gave me back everything I almost threw away: my family, my self-respect, my life. If you’re where I was, don’t wait until you hit rock bottom. Reach out. Get help. I promise you, it’s worth it.

Amanda Griffin

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Hi everyone, I’m Amanda, and I want to share my success rehab story – it’s not easy to write this, but I hope it might help someone else who’s struggling. My battle with oxy started after a brutal breakup with my partner of three years when I was 28. I’d been getting these awful migraines and got a prescription, but if I’m being honest, I was using the pills to numb way more than just the headaches. Looking back, I can’t believe I spent almost three years telling myself I was fine. Like, yeah, I was somehow keeping my graphic design work going, and I even started dating my amazing current girlfriend, but God, I was such a mess inside. It took hitting absolute rock bottom – a suicide attempt during a really dark period when memories of my ex came flooding back – for things to change.

My girlfriend and my sister (bless them both) finally sat me down and basically refused to leave until I agreed to get help. I ended up at this rehab center in Miami that specifically works with LGBTQ+ folks. They put me on Suboxone for the detox (rough, but necessary), did CBT, group sessions – the works. They even had this art therapy program, which, being a designer, I actually loved. The hardest part? Finally facing all the stuff I’d been running from and admitting this wasn’t just about pills anymore. Those 90 days were intense, but my girlfriend, sister, and this incredible LGBTQ+ support group got me through. Now I’m sitting here, 1 year and 4 months clean, and sometimes I can hardly believe it.

My relationship is better than ever, work is taking off, and I’ve finally learned how to deal with my emotions without trying to numb them. Listen, if you’re out there and you’re struggling – please don’t wait until you’re where I was. I know rehab sounds scary, but it’s seriously the bravest thing you can do for yourself. I’m living proof that things can get so much better. Just take that first step. You’ve got this.

Thomas Rivers

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Hello there people, my name is Thomas and I think it will be worth Reading my story of the long and hard way to recovery. You know, I never imagined telling such rehab stories here, but here I am, 9 months sober of marijuana addiction and completely appreciating every single weed-free day. It’s strange how these things slowly enter your life and become a part of it. In my college years in Portland I was your average computer science major full of anxiety who realized that weed makes one more relaxed. As I started freelancing, it became my go-to “creativity booster” for coding projects.

At least that’s what I told myself. Fast forward a few years, and there I was, a supposedly successful programmer in my mid-twenties, secretly getting high before every client video call. I’d wake and bake, code in a haze, and convince myself I was still doing great work. Spoiler alert: I wasn’t. My wake-up call came in layers. First, it was my girlfriend Sarah pointing out how I’d become this empty shell of myself, completely checked out from our relationship. Then my work started taking hits – I was missing deadlines, writing buggy code, and slowly watching my client list shrink.

The real kicker? I nearly tanked my biggest project because I couldn’t focus long enough to debug properly. Getting help wasn’t my idea – Sarah basically gave me an ultimatum. But man, am I grateful she did. The outpatient program I joined wasn’t what I expected. No judgment, just real talk about addiction and practical ways to deal with stress without getting high. The random drug tests kept me honest, especially in those first shaky months. These days, my code is cleaner, my mind is sharper, and I actually remember conversations with clients.

Sarah and I are planning a future together, and I’m present for it this time. The freelance business is growing again, partly because I can actually meet deadlines now. Here’s the thing – if you’re Reading this and thinking “maybe that’s me,” don’t wait. You don’t have to hit rock bottom before reaching out for help. The fog lifts, and life gets real again. Yeah, sometimes real is scary, but it’s so much better than floating through life in a haze. Just my two cents from someone who’s been there. Take care of yourselves, folks.

Brian Cooper

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Hitting rock bottom saved my life. Weird to say that, right? But it’s true.I’m Brian, and until last year, I was that guy everyone in Austin’s music scene whispered about – talented but troubled, always chasing the next high. Started innocent enough: late nights at Continental Club, riding the high of the crowd’s energy, then needing something extra to keep that feeling going. Cocaine became my backstage buddy, then my daily companion, then my whole world.The music industry’s funny that way. Nobody bats an eye when you’re doing lines between sets. Hell, some venues paid us in powder instead of cash. I thought I was living the rockstar life, following in the footsteps of my heroes. What a joke.

Everything fell apart during our Houston show last Spring. Well, the show that never happened. My sister Amy (God bless her) found me sprawled out in some grimy bathroom, barely breathing. She’d driven three hours to see me perform, and instead ended up driving me straight to rehab.The treatment center was different than I’d imagined. No sterile hospital vibes or preachy counselors. Instead, I found myself surrounded by other artists who got it – who understood the unique pressures of creating while fighting addiction. They taught me how to harness that same intensity I used to chase with drugs and pour it into my recovery.

These days, I’m back on stage, but everything feels different. The music’s clearer, more honest. My bandmates actually trust me again. Sometimes I catch Amy in the crowd, and man, the pride in her eyes beats any high I ever chased.Look, I’m not here to preach. Just sharing my truth. If you’re caught in that same spiral I was, know that getting help isn’t giving up – it’s taking back control. Your creativity won’t disappear when the drugs do. If anything, it gets stronger. Trust me on that one.Still playing shows around Austin if anyone wants to hear what sober music sounds like. Turns out it rocks pretty damn hard.

Lisa Foster

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You know what’s funny? I used to judge clients who turned to alcohol. Then there I was, starting with those “innocent” glasses of wine to get through lonely evenings in my suddenly-too-quiet house. Before I knew it, I was the one hiding bottles in my desk drawer and popping mints like candy to mask the smell at work. For three years, I played this exhausting game of pretend, convincing myself I had it under control. Reality hit me like a ton of bricks one Tuesday afternoon. I still remember the fluorescent lights of the hospital ceiling, coming to after collapsing at work. Severe dehydration, they said. Liver problems. My doctor – bless her heart – didn’t mince words. “Lisa,” she said, looking me straight in the eyes, “keep this up and you won’t live to see your grandchildren.” And you know what’s worse? That same week, I missed my daughter’s graduation. Couldn’t even stand up straight, let alone drive to the ceremony.

God, writing this still makes my stomach turn. My kids… they saved my life, really. They tag-teamed me into rehab – not that I put up much of a fight by then. The program was intense, I won’t sugar-coat it. Individual therapy (lots of ugly crying), group sessions (more crying, but with witnesses), and this amazing thing called EMDR therapy that helped me finally process all that divorce trauma I’d been drowning in wine. The whole time, my kids showed up. Every. Single. Weekend. Even when I was a mess, even when I couldn’t look them in the eye. The other people in recovery became like family too – still see most of them at our alumni meetings. Funny how you can form such deep bonds with people when you’re all fighting your way back to life together. These days… well, these days are something else entirely. Sometimes I catch myself smiling for no reason, just doing ordinary things like grocery shopping or having coffee with my daughter.

My liver’s recovering (doctors are amazed), I’m back at work (with actual mints in my drawer now, just because I like them), and I’ve even started mentoring others in recovery. Talk about life coming full circle, right? Listen, if you’re Reading this and seeing yourself in any part of my story, please don’t wait until you’re where I was. Don’t wait until you’re staring at a hospital ceiling or missing the moments that matter. I know it’s scary – believe me, I know. But there’s this whole beautiful life waiting on the other side of recovery. And you? You deserve to live it. Just take that first step. That’s all you need to do right now. Just one step. The rest? Well, the rest we’ll figure out together.  Brian Cooper Hitting rock bottom saved my life. Weird to say that, right? But it’s true. I’m Brian, and until last year, I was that guy everyone in Austin’s music scene whispered about – talented but troubled, always chasing the next high. Started innocent enough: late nights at Continental Club, riding the high of the crowd’s energy, then needing something extra to keep that feeling going. Cocaine became my backstage buddy, then my daily companion, then my whole world. The music industry’s funny that way.

Nobody bats an eye when you’re doing lines between sets. Hell, some venues paid us in powder instead of cash. I thought I was living the rockstar life, following in the footsteps of my heroes. What a joke. Everything fell apart during our Houston show last Spring. Well, the show that never happened. My sister Amy (God bless her) found me sprawled out in some grimy bathroom, barely breathing. She’d driven three hours to see me perform, and instead ended up driving me straight to rehab. The treatment center was different than I’d imagined. No sterile hospital vibes or preachy counselors. Instead, I found myself surrounded by other artists who got it – who understood the unique pressures of creating while fighting addiction. They taught me how to harness that same intensity I used to chase with drugs and pour it into my recovery. These days, I’m back on stage, but everything feels different. The music’s clearer, more honest.

My bandmates actually trust me again. Sometimes I catch Amy in the crowd, and man, the pride in her eyes beats any high I ever chased. Look, I’m not here to preach. Just sharing my truth. If you’re caught in that same spiral I was, know that getting help isn’t giving up – it’s taking back control. Your creativity won’t disappear when the drugs do. If anything, it gets stronger. Trust me on that one. Still playing shows around Austin if anyone wants to hear what sober music sounds like. Turns out it rocks pretty damn hard. Brian

Emily Watson

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Hi there – Emily here. I’ve been going back and forth about sharing this, but I figure if my story helps even one person, it’s worth it. I never thought I’d end up where I did. There I was, a Manhattan attorney with the corner office I’d always dreamed of, burning the midnight oil on case files while my family photos stared back at me from my desk. The pressure was crushing – depositions, court appearances, client demands… not to mention trying to be there for my kid’s soccer games and my husband’s work events. The amphetamines started as a “just this once” thing during a massive class action suit. Then it became a twice-a-week thing. Then daily. You know how it goes – you tell yourself you’ve got it under control because you’re still making partner meetings and remembering to pack your kid’s lunch. God, I was so wrong.

Rock bottom hit when I got pulled over for erratic driving. Sophie was in the backseat – I was supposed to be taking her to her friend’s house. The officer took one look at me and called for backup. Being handcuffed in front of my terrified 12-year-old while she waited for her dad to pick her up… that was the moment I knew I’d completely lost control. John (my husband) finally called my parents over one Sunday afternoon.

They’d all seen the signs – the weight loss, the mood swings, my shaky hands. I crumbled. Called Riverside Recovery the next morning. Detox was hell – no sugarcoating it. But the staff there? Angels. My therapist, Maria, helped me unpack years of perfectionism and people-pleasing. Group therapy showed me I wasn’t the only one who’d fallen into this trap. The meditation sessions I rolled my eyes at initially? Now they’re my daily lifeline. It’s been 2 years, 7 months, and 13 days (but who’s counting, right?). I’m still practicing law, but on my terms now. Sophie and I bake cookies on weekends. John and I actually talk – like, really talk. Look, if you’re Reading this and seeing yourself in my words, please reach out for help. I wish I’d done it sooner. You’re not alone, and you’re stronger than you think. Promise.

Jackie Mendes

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I’ve been staring at this blank screen forever, trying to figure out how to start. I’m Jackie, and this isn’t exactly the kind of story I ever imagined telling. Funny how you never picture yourself becoming an addict, right? I sure didn’t. I was just a regular stylist in LA, running around like crazy between clients, trying to make it in the industry. Then this girl at work – we’ll call her Meg – noticed how stressed I was and offered me some pills. “Just to take the edge off,” she said. Classic beginning, I know. The switch to heroin wasn’t some big dramatic moment. Pills got expensive, my dealer was unreliable, and suddenly smoking H didn’t seem that scary anymore.

What a joke. I spent six years living this insane double life – doing hair and makeup during the day, scoring in sketchy neighborhoods at night. My poor husband had no clue why our bank account was always empty. Getting busted was actually my rock bottom (and thank god for that). Picture this: me, in my work clothes, getting cuffed in some random Walmart parking lot. My husband’s face when he came to get me from jail… I still get sick thinking about it. Detox was brutal, not gonna lie. I was the biggest pain in the ass at rehab – ask my counselor Maria lol. But something clicked during group therapy. Maybe it was hearing other people’s recovery success stories, or maybe I was just finally ready to get real with myself. My husband stuck by me somehow.

We did this intense couples therapy thing that basically forced us to rebuild everything from scratch. Now we have our daughter (adopted her 3 years ago!), and sometimes I look at her and can’t believe how far I’ve come. Real talk? Recovery isn’t all sunshine and rainbows. Some days still suck. But they’re real days, you know? Not that fake happiness heroin sells you. If you’re Reading this wondering if you should get help – just do it. Take it from someone who wasted six years thinking “tomorrow.” Tomorrow’s here. Make it count. -J

Richard Green

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I never imagined I would be sharing my recovery stories from addiction like this, but after what I have been through, I feel obligated to do so for others who may be facing similar challenges. The drinking started after Vietnam in ’79. Like many of us who came back, I was trying to drown out memories that wouldn’t fade. On the surface, life looked good – I became a teacher, married my beautiful Sarah, and raised two amazing kids. But that bottle was my constant companion, my crutch through it all. When cancer took Mary in 2017, everything unraveled.

A bottle of whiskey became my daily breakfast, lunch, and dinner. It took my daughter threatening to keep my grandkids away from me to finally see what I’d become. Forty years of “I can handle it” came crashing down, and I finally admitted what everyone else already knew – I needed help. Thank God for the VA’s rehab program. They understood both the addiction and the PTSD that fueled it. Ninety days of detox, therapy, and learning to face life sober. The other vets in there became like family – we all spoke the same language of trauma and recovery.

My kids stood by me, and my AA sponsor (bless that stubborn old Marine) kept me going when I wanted to quit. Five years sober now, and sometimes I hardly recognize myself. I lead AA meetings, volunteer at the VA, and best of all, I’m the grandfather my grandkids deserve. My relationships with my children have healed in ways I never thought possible. If you’re out there, still struggling, still thinking you can handle it alone – take it from this old vet: there’s no shame in reaching out. The help is there. The understanding is there. You just have to be brave enough to take that first step. Richard M. Class of ’79, Recovery Class of 2018

Sarah Blake

You know those “before and after sobriety” addiction success stories that seem too dramatic to be real? Yeah, I used to roll my eyes at those too. But here I am, writing one. I grew up in a pretty normal neighborhood in north Seattle. Middle-class family, decent grades, played volleyball – the whole suburban package. Nothing about my life screamed “future addict.” But that’s the thing about falling down this particular rabbit hole – it doesn’t exactly announce itself with warning signs. It started junior year, at Chelsea’s birthday party. I was dealing with typical teenage stuff – anxiety about college applications, drama with my then-boyfriend, parents pushing me to “live up to my potential.”

When someone offered me what they said was just “party medicine,” it seemed like no big deal. One pill to forget about my problems for a while. The thing they don’t tell you about ecstasy is how sneaky it is. At first, it’s just for special occasions. Then weekends. Then you’re finding reasons why a random Tuesday counts as special enough. Before I knew it, I was spending my college fund on pills and lying to everyone who cared about me. Rock bottom wasn’t some dramatic scene – it was waking up one morning, looking in the mirror, and not recognizing the person staring back.

My skin was awful, I’d lost way too much weight, and my eyes… they just looked empty. Getting clean wasn’t a straight line. I relapsed twice before it stuck. The first month of rehab, I was such a nightmare that I’m amazed the staff didn’t quit on the spot. But slowly, painfully, things started to make sense again. My therapist, Maria, helped me understand that I wasn’t just fighting addiction – I was running from myself. Today marks one year sober. I’m back in school (community college, but hey, it’s something), working part-time at a local coffee shop, and actually talking to my parents instead of avoiding them. Some days are still hard, and I’ve lost friends along the way. But I’ve gained something more important: self-respect. I’m sharing this because when I was using, I felt like no one could possibly understand what I was going through.

If you’re in that dark place right now, know that you’re not alone. Recovery isn’t perfect, but it’s real, and it’s possible. Edit: No, I’m not looking for sympathy – just hoping my experience might help someone else find their way out. George Hudson Well, never in a million years did I imagine that one day I would need to pen one of these recovery posts but who knows, this might save some guy out there some serious anguish! I spent seven years of my life chasing meth, and it all started with something as simple as trying to stay awake on the job. Trucking’s a brutal business – endless nights, tight deadlines, and the constant pressure to keep moving. Another driver saw me struggling to keep my eyes open one night and offered what he called his “secret weapon.” Should’ve known better, but when you’re dead tired and still have 500 miles to go, you make stupid choices. The wake-up call wasn’t subtle. Had a massive heart attack while unloading in Phoenix, age 43. One minute I’m pulling boxes, the next I’m on the ground wondering if this is it. Lost my CDL, my wife split, and suddenly I’m lying in a hospital bed with my brother Mike refusing to leave until I agreed to get help.

Stubborn bastard probably saved my life. Detox was a nightmare I wouldn’t wish on anyone. Spent a week feeling like my skin was crawling off my bones. The docs found out I had anxiety issues I’d been covering up with the meth. Funny how you can go years not knowing what’s really driving you to self-destruct. Dr. Thompson, my counselor, didn’t sugar-coat anything. Called me out on my BS and helped me figure out why I kept sabotaging myself. The other addicts in recovery got me through some really dark days. There’s something about being around people who’ve seen the same hell you have – no judgment, just understanding.

These days, I’m back behind the wheel, but local routes only. Twenty months clean. Still dealing with life’s crap, but at least I’m facing it sober. Started helping out at the recovery center where I got clean – turns out sharing your worst mistakes can actually help someone else avoid them. If you’re where I was, spinning out of control but too scared or proud to admit it, just know there’s a way out. Doesn’t have to take a heart attack to change your life. Just takes admitting you need help and being willing to accept it when it comes.

Your Recovery Story Starts Here

These moving real life examples demonstrate that if you want to recover, you can no matter who you are and no matter where you are from. Countless individuals pass through the rehabilitation process and become successful addictions’ free happy individuals. They were overcome by alcohol or drugs or both as well as other feelings they were also able to be the person they wanted to be.

If you, or someone you care about, is struggling with addiction it’s important to know that seeking help is an act of bravery not a shortage of it. They too have dreamt of writing their stories of recovery. Do that first courageous act right now – just call a rehabilitation center or talk to a counselor. You and other patients can achieve total recovery and inspire millions of people.

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